Actually, you can’t make someone love you because truth to tell, people can’t help whom they love.  However, you can attract or magnetize someone enough to get them interested and then maybe, just maybe, if everything falls into place, fall in love with you. 

Again, there is nothing you can do to make someone love you but there are ways you can use to let them see what a wonderful person you are.  It’s always a shot but it might not always get you what you want.  But if you’re the stubborn kind and want to give fate a nudge, here are some tips you can use to magnetize someone you love.  Remember, though: you have been warned.

Begin as friends. This is usually where good things begin and being friends with someone you love isn’t so bad.  It’s not as good as being in love with each other, but it can be a start to magnetize someone to get interested.  Right now, the person you love probably sees you in a one-dimensional light.  There is a 50-50 chance that they’ll learn to like you once they get to know you.

Make a list. Find out what your beloved likes and dislikes and make a list of every useful thing there is to know about them. This will help you to magnetize someone you love. Check every trait or quality that you have or use a rating system (1 being totally not you and 10 being you’re proof such a characteristic exists in a living person).  Be honest.  You can’t pretend forever, you know.

Get yourself in the line of sight. You can’t hope to attract or magnetize someone enough to make them love you if they can’t see you.  Increase your visibility by a notch, maybe two, hell – three.  Four or five will be pushing it.  You want to be visible, not annoying like an ever-present fly or wallpaper. 

If the object of your desires goes to a certain gym, you might want to join the same outfit and get the same schedule.  Or if your future partner plays tennis, learn to swing the racquet yourself.  It won’t be easy, but then again, to magnetize someone and being loved is never easy so be prepared for possibilities.

Show your good side is a good way to magnetize someone you love. Especially your best angle and we don’t mean just your profile.  If your beloved likes someone who can cook, casually mention you make a mean lasagna or better yet, make the best lasagna you can and give it away to your friends, which of course, includes your special someone.  Just make sure it’s really good.

Make it look casual. There’s a certain thing about trying too hard that spells p-a-t-h-e-t-i-c and it could be difficult to swallow.  Make whatever you do to attract or magnetize someone you love look effortless and casual, as if you didn’t think about it, as if it’s something you usually do. 

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By: Gerry Restrivera

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Wow, was I surprised. After taking care of John McCain’s eight homes—or was that nine—I forget, and he probably does too. After all, both of us are “getting up there.”Anyway I have a bone to pick with McCain, darn it, because it’s high time that us girls got noticed too.

Not just men are plumbers, after all. I’d been one up until a few years ago when my arthritis got the better of me. Still, I wonder why folks like McCain don’t figure out that I vote too. In fact, I’m just the kind of person that can make or break it for that fellow, if you know what I mean. Them news guys, they don’t know nothing either. They forgot about me too. Every time they interview some redneck, blue collar person, it’s a man. Every time they talk about some middle class vote or someone in Middle America, they talk about Joe Six Pack or Joe the Plumber or Ordinary Joe, like that was all there was to people.

So, what about me, Josephine the Plumber? Now don’t I count too?I remember four years ago. Them pollsters they said that more of us women voted than the guys did. I voted. I voted for that Bush fellow too. It sounded good about having someone to have a beer with and all that, cause I like having a beer myself once in awhile. But you know what? I’m not sure anymore. The last time I drank a six pack I couldn’t get up in the morning. I don’t know if that’s the President’s problem, but I kinda wonder what’s been going on up there in the White House because nothing for sure is getting done these days.

Anyway, like I was telling you.. I’ve decided I’m voting for that other guy, whats his name, Borax, Boric, Barracks or something like that, but anyway I’ve decided that’s what I’m doing. I got a phone call the other day from someone on the phone talking to me about that Boraky person like I was some ignorant fool or something. I might not spell or write good, but I’m sure not dumb enough to fall for that nonsense foolishness. And I ain’t no elitist either, but I sure want the President to be smart. It’s okay with me if he’s smarter than me too, because the last one wasn’t, and where did that get us?

Anyway I’m going back to my television now because this computer stuff just isn’t my thing. I got my granddaughter helping me out with it. But I sure enjoyed talking to you folks.



By: Carol Forsloff

About the Author:

Afzal Shauq is a shining star. He is a shining star in galaxy of the third generation of the present day Pashto poets and writers. The brave new generation is destined to become pioneer of post- modernism in Pashto literature.

 

One of their active and productive pals, Afzal Shauq , is anxious to tread that unbeaten path, in the domain of 21st century Pashto literature. He has acquired considerable grasp of the new trends and critical discourses on the Post-Modernism in the Western literature. Well educated and widely traveled in the countries of the east and west, he has closely studied the culture and the way of life of the countries he has visited. He has keenly observed the goings on and life style of the countries, having been the centres of the ancient civilization and culture such as, Egypt, Rome, London and Paris. In his travels, Afzal shauq , was fully equipped electronic gadgets of photography and audio cassettes recording. Besides visiting places of historical interest, literary institutions  and cultural centres, he had rounds of busy bazaars, markets and parks, capturing and  preserving landscapes and sound images, besides recording interviews and chatting with men and women in the streets and institutions.

 

Based on this pictorial and sonic material, he compiled three creatively conceived and inspiringly portrayed travelogues published in beautifully printed books. He has given frank and thought provoking accounts of what he had seen and heard, in well-written prose, interspersed with poetic pieces, composed  on various occasions during his journey. He has also published two collections of his poetry, mostly consisting of prose poems. Another of his prose books is an experimental biographical novel of great literary merit. This novel is written in the perspective of Pharaoh’s era of Egypt, which merges ancient past with the present day space age.

 

The lead lady character is an Egyptian beauty (Shauq’s wife) and hero of the book is Shauq himself, with fictitious name Sailaney ( the traveler) .  The heroin has been modeled after the enchanting queen of Egypt of yore, Cleopatra, whose enticing charm has been immortalized by Shakespeare, saying, her infinite variety can be withered by age, nor staled by custom.

 

Afzal Shauq is lucky enough as 333 of his selected prose poems have been translated to English by a gifted American damsel, Alley Boling, an intellectual, scientist, philosopher and a marvelous muse. A perfectionist, she devoted two long years of her precious multi – task carrier in Georgia, USA, to render into English verse Shauq’s poems, published under the title, TWIST OF FATES. She plans to publish the book in the United States, too. If effectively promoted through media and book – launching functions, it is quite possible that the book will hit the best sellers list in that country.

 

I feel that the plot of Shauq’s novel may have been inspired by his poem, published in the TWIST OF FATES. Here are relevant lines from the poem, titled “ Global Sign” ( dedicated to Dr. Ouahiba Sakani Afzal, dearest life partner of Afzal Shauq) , He says;

 

                Daughter of Pharaoh

                Queen of Egypt

For love’s sake

Places her Crown

At the feet

Of Pashtun Caesar,

 

The dominant themes of Afzal Shauq’s poetry, as published in the TWIST OF FATES, are love, life and humanity, which though amply dealt with in world literature, yet Shauq gives new meanings and dimensions to these ideas. He has written unique poems in starting, simple but evocative  style, which at the same time are shocking, shaking, dazzling, amazing and soothing. He presents love as enriching, ennobling life and cementing humanity. Besides poetry, almost half the world’s philosophy is devoted to these three elements: “ Man is born free and has to live freely, without social taboos and restrictions and oppressive legal systems.

 

Mankind is the descendant of a single diving couple, Adam and Eve, and must live like brothers all over the globe, turning it into a paradise, lost by their heavenly ancestors. Equality, justice, and universal peace are yearning passion of Shauq. He abhors the idea of a global village …. Which is a codename for the enslavement of human being to be fettered by the exploitation might of market economy and technological superiority.

 

The most perplexing problem facing MAN today is, how to actualize the diction;

 

                “ Live and let Live”

 

As Robert Browning says,

 

                So free we seem

                So fettered fast we are.

 

Shakespeare in Hamlet observes;

 

       For who would bear whips and scorns of time,

       The oppressor’s wrong, the proud man’s contumely,

       The pangs of disprized love, the law’s delay,

       The insolence of office and the spurns,

       _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _

 

                The grunt and sweat

                Under the weary life.

 

William Black says,

 

                Life delights in  “ Life”.

 

A French anonymous song hits the bull’s – eye;

 

                It’s love that

                Makes the world

                Go round.

 

Bertrand Russell philosophizes:

 

                Broadly speaking, we are in the

                Middle of a race between human

                Skill as the “ means ” and

                Human folly as the  “ end “.

 

Shauq upholds the enlightened Zoroaster’s teaching, as propounded in the scripture - - Zhand – Avesta, about light and darkness. Light, he says, signifies the Good and darkness, the Evil. Both are at ceaseless war, against each other since time immemorial. It is the light, which will ultimately triumph. Zoroaster preached that Ormazd is the Lord of goodness, Light and Creator of mankind. He identified the deity of darkness and evil, as Ahriman. In Persian language and literature, Ahriman still stands for Satan, while Ormazd has been turned into Yazdan, meaning Allah Almighty. Zoroaster is believed to have lived in the 6th century BC.

 

Shauq is fully conscious of the complexities of life. He says;

 

                Life is a snake crawling

                Life’s path

                Twist and turns

                And the distances

                Are always expanding

 

Yet, he is optimistic that life will shine with bright light at the end of the dark tunnel. This he portrays in the following lines..

 

                The state

                Graveyards

                Yet new

                Bushes grow

                Bringing hope

                For new

                Life.

 

About love, Shauq says;

 

                And with love

                Culture

                Location,

                Belief,

                All vanish,

                This, I believe

 

Shauq is restless soul, always on the move, in the quest for peace, amity, and universal brotherhood. He years that;

 

                Like travelers of yesterday

                It would be my wish

                To go to world’s corners

                The white flag of peace,

                The banner I would carry

                Removing all the borders.

                And whole humankind

                Could join together

And in another two lines, Afzal Shauq, lark of thousands melodies, aspires;

 

                For a white flag

                To wave against the darkness.

 

Now, let us recall prophetic Goete’s dying words - - - only two words;

 

                “ MORE  LIGHT ”

 

AYAZ  DAUDZAI

Rawalpindi / Pakistan

 

(Article published also in BalochistanTtimes/5/10/2006)

 

NOTE…..

(Read out at book launching ceremony, at the Pakistan Academy of Letters, Islamabad.

Book of Afzal Shauq’s poems, translated into English 21st September 2006)

Link: www.khyber.org

Book: Bridging The Gaps



By: afzal shauq

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Sex is one of the greatest sources of pleasure and heartbreak among human beings. The Father of Psychoanalysis, Sigmund Freud, thought all psychological problems stemmed from the patient’s maladjusted attitudes towards sex. Although later proved wrong, there are many people with sexual dysfunctions that have been helped by psychoanalysis. Oddly enough, humans seem to be the main animal on the planet with sexual dysfunctions, which does suggest that we might not be the most intelligent of species after all.

Premature Ejaculation

This is probably the biggest sexual dysfunction doctors hear about. First off, any man with premature ejaculation should get a physical check-up just to make sure there isn’t a physical basis for this sexual dysfunction. But there still is hope for premature ejaculators, even if physical causes are ruled out.

The patient has to confront their attitudes towards sex, their fear of impotency and the overall pressures on their time in their lives. Sex might seem more like a chore and not any fun. The patient needs to learn not to fear impotency and also of premature ejaculation. They are then taught a delay technique (which is too graphic to explain here) to help with their problem.



Hypoactive Sexual Disorder

This is another common sexual dysfunction, seen in both sexes. This is where you just have no interest in sex. Even the patient’s time spent in sexual fantasy is greatly reduced. Again, the patient needs to se a doctor to rule out physical problems like major depression. If nothing is found, then it’s off to a therapist.

It might be comforting to know that a majority of adults (over 21) have problems with sexual desire. It is especially worrying if they had the usual hyperactive sexualities as a teenager. This sexual dysfunction is also treated with a patient’s look at mortality, fears of growing old, and other pressures in his or her life.



Gender Identity Disorder

This is a rather vague sexual dysfunction where the patient feels strongly that they have been born the wrong sex. This can even lead to not only self-hatred, but hatred of their own entire gender. This is seen to be different for homosexuality, as most gays and lesbians are quite happy with their current bodies.

This is not to be confused with hermaphroditic conditions, where a person is born with stunted elements from both sexes. This isn’t even to be confused with physical causes like being accident castrated as a newborn.

Original source: Sexual Dysfunction Can Have A Psychological Basis



By: Brian Welsch

About the Author:

Adult lingerie is sexy. It’s designed to imitate certain characters or people. Lingerie lets you portray roles by simply wearing attire that creates a special mood or feeling. The only difference is the outfits are designed in an extremely sexy way, showing a lot of skin and further accentuating the impact and heightening the excitement.

 

Sexy adult lingerie may be fashioned after a schoolgirl outfit. Instead of the usual conservative cut which this outfit comes in, the adult lingerie is designed to have a plunging blouse, overly short skirt and glittered, net, or sheer stockings.

 

Another example is a maid’s outfit. Used as adult lingerie, the blouse also plunges and only panties serve as a garment for the lower part of the body. The skirt is short for added effect.

 

Other kinds of adult lingerie are extremely erotic so that they have cupless bras. These cupless bras are usually a part of a teddy, harness or a suspender. Leather is a commonly used material for them as it exudes both a powerful and sexy aura. For greater effect, they are designed with studs, grommets, lace and/or nailheads. 

There is nothing like the feel of leather on your skin to create some excitement. A girl wearing leather lingerie has a sexy dangerous look and feel. A leather corset is just plain sexy! Guaranteed to spice up your sex life!

 

Accessories may be used to complement the whole style of the adult lingerie outfit. Examples of these accessories are whips, masks, hats, armbands, wrist cuffs, chokers, and collar. Most of these props and accessories are also made of leather.

 

Corsets are especially sexy and are designed to complement the female form. Slimming the woman’s waist and accentuating the bosom, creating a fantasy effect that is irresistible. Corsets come in many styles and colors offering a wide variety of options for every woman.

 

Corsets, Garter belts, Thongs, G-strings, and Teddies can really set the right mood and keep things exciting! Nothings better than really amping up your sex play with a new fantasy costume!

 

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By: jgand

About the Author:

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By: michael

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High heels are the hallmark of fashion and sophistication. They amplify the stature of a woman and make her look more alluring.

Watch a woman walk by in high heels and you can surely hear a pitter patter in your heart. It is really quite astonishing the way women balance themselves in heels. Nevertheless, they manage to look awesome in them. The sway of the hips and the gentle undulation gives a very sexy look to their being. Knowing the hypnotic effect of the heels, women are feeling inclined to search for newer types of high heels with even steeper heels to make them look still sexier. But what is it about high heel shoes that make women swoon over them and dish out large amounts of their hard earned money?

Recounting The History Of Heels

If you think about how high heels came into fashion, then it dates back to a great many centuries ago. The idea of heels occurred to Egyptians butchers first when they had to get across a horde of dead animal carcasses with blood spilt out everywhere. It was also used by horse riders to help them ride better. However, heels became a fashionable item when Catherine de’ Medici, the wife of the Duke of Orleans in 1533, wore them to increase her height. This hot idea soon caught the fancy of all other noblewomen and high heel shoes have continued to dominate the fashion world since then.

Their position in the fashion market

There have been ups and downs in the life of the high heels. They suffered a serious setback during the French Revolution. However, they soon bounced back in the nineteenth century with even newer styles and ideas. Their dominance over the fashion world was challenged by the flat-soled shoes but they resurfaced soon to be a necessary part of the dressing styles of most fashion icons. The apparel used in the twentieth century prompted the re-emergence of the heels.

Advantages of Wearing High Heels

There are various advantages why a woman chooses to wear heels.

It gives a beautiful stance to the woman. Her physical stature is so well balanced out that she appears to be seductive. It lends sensuousness to her gait. There is a definite charm in watching a woman sway her hips while walking. Heels certainly improve the height of a girl. It makes her look much taller and slimmer. It accentuates the legs and makes them look attractive. It lends a slimmer look to them. It makes a woman feel more confident and sophisticated. It adds glamour to the look of a woman.

Disadvantages of Wearing High Heels

It causes severe pain in the feet if used regularly and for long hours at a stretch. Back pain is another possibility. There are many deformities like bunion and hammertoes which afflict the feet. The knees start buckling and you can feel the pain in the joints there. It is a severe threat to the tendons in the ankle and feet area. Corns too may develop in the feet. There is always danger lurking when you wear heels. You will be unable to run if the need arises. Also, the tremendous pressure on the heels may make you stumble and cause a fall.

There are many online stores which facilitate buying easily and safely. So choose a pair of high heels today and feel the confidence surge back in you.



By: Jackie Borman

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